Update photo from neighbor of Minou refusing a treat. |
Home now, unpacked and showered. The kitty ate 3 meals a day and only threw up
twice while I was gone. I was reminded
that when I left for the workshop I thought it was possible that I would
talk about my cat a lot; I was really making myself nervous about if that
would be a good use of my time. You see,
cats turn you into a crazy cat person! They do it slowly so by the time they’re
13 or 14 you didn’t even notice anything changed and people roll their eyes right in front of you as you talk about your cat and you keep talking! I don’t think I mentioned her once during the
workshop. My worrying about her refusing to eat was, of course, a
complete waste of energy. I do feel
validated that one of the days my neighbor went through three different kinds
of food kitty refused and then her boyfriend fed the kitty the same
food and she ate it! I’m imagining
it’s proof that cats will go to great lengths to play mind games with humans, even risking their lives for a laugh.
Expressing my vulnerability. Cred: Genevieve Shouff |
I welcome anyone who knows me and wants to engage me in resentments or appreciations, to get a copy of Radical Honesty, read the chapter on anger (if not the whole book), and let me know you’d like to talk. Ideally a completion happens in person, but face time or skype works in a pinch. If you are a relative of mine you will likely eventually hear from me, and I’m pacing myself, so if you have something pressing, call me up! I am aware I am using this blog to keep me from chickening out on this part of the work, and what the heck! So what?! If you are making yourself nervous like me, just remember I happily survived people resenting me for my face and for how I breathe and for crying and for talking…. And they survived me resenting them for their face, for crying, for laughing, even for standing in a doorway once. And then there were really wonderful appreciations and ones I didn't care about and ones I resented... we're keepin' it human here! It’s really much much better on the other side of the communication! Whether you have a beef or some love for me or someone else, the book helps a lot. Here’s a real link (not just an underline) to the book and others by Brad Blanton http://radicalhonesty.com/store/books/
One of my fav pics from One Tree Yoga Studio by Meredith Rom |
I am presently reading Practicing Radical Honesty, which has a guide on how to start a Radical Honesty
group. I imagine I will start a group in
the North Bay, so if you’re interested drop me a line at sarahdomke@gmail.com. I do not promise any timeline on this aspiration, but it is a start. We also have Taber, the main trainer other
than Brad, in Oakland CA, so it’s quite a treat to have such wonderful support
nearby!
Also: I am going to continue to post pictures of myself on this blog for now because Sarah Domke, the playboy bunny, has considerably increased her real estate on our google image search. If you really want to help me out, google us and click on my pictures first and more often… though I wouldn’t ask you to not look at hers ;)
I am still accepting donations to my Radical Honesty fund & offering 10 more Yoga or Energy Work sessions at 50% off. Energy work available via Skype. For more info or to contribute go to http://www.sarahdomke.com/#!radical-honesty/c1b2i